2012年10月18日星期四

知己难求到做人做事

人在KL,身不由己。。。真的知己难求。
回来多时,还找不到真正的得力助手;
或许该说是真正能比较有默契并懂得啥叫“做人”的还没碰上!

做事,得先懂得做人
但往往人总把次序颠倒;先做事,后做人。

啥叫做人呢?老实说,我还在学习。。。
事无完美,人更不能十全十美;
我们只能活到老, 学到老。

然而,我们又会常常认为我们已经懂了,停了。。。
我们的傲,骄,贪,私,懒;让我们以为都懂了 - 
续而让自己吃尽了苦头。
要是一个人碰碰钉子就算了,
但是许许多多的人,却拖累家人一起受苦受累!

世界上太多类似的人,他们不坏,而且在朋友眼中是好人。。。
但为何这些“好人”却会连累家人呢?这值得我们深思!
最不该的是许许多多的年轻人,往往都连累自己的父母。
最令人可笑及可耻的,这些年轻人都有一大篇理由来为自己辩护;
从不认为自己错了,也不面对或正视问题;一味逃避!

我想我们的好好的探讨人的傲,骄,贪,私,懒!

2012年10月17日星期三

家乡?想家?乡家?哪个家?

至今,好几个月了(确定是7个月了);
可以说慢慢适应了家乡,但也开始想“家”了。
想哪在纽约的家了;哪的朋友,哪的食物,哪的生活,哪的学生。。。

毕竟在哪待了十几年,老早就把哪当家了;
不是家乡,也得是“乡家”吧!
从二十出头到快四十,这段黄金时期,那段岁月。。。
在哪:打拼,挣扎,落魄,奋斗,风光,失落,成长。。。

当时的:得与失,赚与亏,上或下,赢或输;
回头一看,都不太重要。。。
留在记忆中的是一段段的故事;一串串的生活。

不晓得,何时才能再和老朋友相聚。。。
身在国外时,也有同样的感触:何时再和马来西亚的朋友相聚。

上个月,在看“宝岛一村”时,被那一幕感动了;
就是那一幕。。。
身在外乡而又不能回国与亲人相聚的那一幕。
但这两个地方,都是我的家呀!
离开了,就回不去了。。。
不离开,也回不来了。。。

朋友!谢谢你们!一路来的陪伴。
无论以后是否可以再见面,只希望你多保重!

2012年10月16日星期二

Be a human first, then work...

Can't believe that I have left this city for over 7 months now. A city that full of energy, fun and life! The City is also the hub of culture, knowledge and technology.

Besides the fun part, let's talk about the education... Being one of the biggest cities in the States, NYC also has few top High Schools and Universities.

Among the top high schools, include Hunter College High School, Stuyvesant High School, Bronx Science High School, Staten Island High School, La Guardia High School, Townsand Harris High School and so on. All these high schools have nurtured countless of successful alumni, and you can actually find their names in the list of well-known people...

What is the difference of these schools compared to others? What differentiates the schools within the City? The problem is not limited to NYC, it is also a problem for many countries including my beloved country: Malaysia! The Education Blue Print of Malaysia is grand and great... but it's not practical! It's not about the numbers! It's about the human! Can't these so call professionals see it? Yup! The plan may eventually benefits a small portion of people in the short term and even long run... maybe more than 90% still "hanging" there.

Learn how to be a Person first....that's the answer!